Category Archives: Graphically Said

Kind, Giving and Loving

Love doesn’t care about your sex, wealth, color, education, or any other ‘who you are’ category, and it’s what I’m talking about in today’s Graphically Said post.

From dad’s book, “Bluebell”, we learn that the “grandson of a slave, Willis Jefferson’s severe, but relatively happy childhood had ended in its ninth year.” He deeply loved his parents but it didn’t keep them from dying.

And then, only three years later he nearly died himself on the plains of Kansas in a terrible storm. Had it not been for Rowena Kramer, his rescuer, he would have perished and we wouldn’t have dad’s book.

Following the rescue, as Willis awoke in his new ‘home’, we hear his benefactor say…

“Well, what’s this?  Do you mean that the brave young man who was out in that terrible storm, all alone, is afraid of me?” There followed several quick, light steps, and the bed dipped as she seated herself beside him.  “Come now, I really can’t believe that!”  Gently she tugged at the blanket.  “Why-why don’t you tell me about it?”

Slowly, apprehensively, he let the covers slip from his grasp, and peered up through half closed lids…it was her hair that he saw first.  It fell down over her shoulders and about her face…her beautiful face. It had never occurred to Willis that a white face could be beautiful, but then, he had never seen one filled with love and compassion.  As these thoughts raced about his mind, it came to him that he’d never considered white folk as anything more than something to fear and avoid.”

This is the woman, linked with his own mother in the following quote, that enabled him to be a man of care and concern, when confronted with a situation that would alter his future terribly, yet exactly as he imagined.

A Few More Steps to Ponder

Race: By the Colors

I’m posting in one of my favorite categories today, Graphically Said, and with it, and a very brief excerpt from dad’s book, “Bluebell”, showing just how difficult caring for another can be.


Willis Jefferson, a young black man featured in “Bluebell” and severalrecent posts – on – this blog, had been taught to love his fellow human.  At a time when he least expects it, he hears a woman being beaten, and as he’s in the white section of a southern town, knows the race of the victim.  Black men didn’t rush to help Caucasian women in this part of the country during the late 1930’s yet these words from his ‘second’ mom, Rowena Kramer, beat like a hammer in his mind.

Like a First Responder, willing to put their life on the line for another but having to consciously  make that commitment each and every time they respond…

“Willis had no idea of how long he stood rooted in indecision, nor was he ever certain as to who or what ended his hesitation.  With a dread fear of what lay ahead, Willis hurdled the fence, and fixed his gaze on the door of the rear, screened-in porch.”

Next Steps

 

 

Within Her Spirit

In today’s Graphically Said post, we look at 15 words from “Bluebell” and the impact, of the woman they described, on one of the book’s main characters, Willis Jefferson.

What pushed a young black man to risk his life running to the aid of a victimized white lady in a small southern town in the late 1930’s?  It was largely the influence of another white woman in his life, Rowena Kramer.

Rowena enters the world of fiction via dad’s book, of the same name, as a young child, not yet six years old, already “alone and lost; in a world she could not comprehend, at the mercy of forces against which she had no defense.

As she, on her first train ride, sat “huddled next to the large, glowering man, the child’s appearance suggested that no amount of external warmth could dispel the chill that gripped her.  Her proximity to him, although not that of an offspring enjoying the security of a loving parent, was close enough to indicate that they were, in some way, attached. 

There were those who would have viewed her as merely wistful, but intuitive observation would have revealed a child, if not abused, acutely aware of being unwanted.  Had this not been so, in another time, she would have been a living Rockwell.

This was to become the woman who rescued Willis from a Kansas storm and loved him like she was his own mother.  As we discover in “Bluebell”, “Willis  was not alone in his special feelings for Rowena Kramer; there were many others.  They came and went in a seemingly endless parade, some staying only for a meal, some for a day, a week or longer.  They were young, old, and in-between.  Mostly, they were men and boys, but occasionally a member of the fairer sex was taken under Miss Rowena’s wing.  No matter the gender, problem or need, however, all shared a common bond: No one leaving her was ever less than better for the experience, nor was that separation ever complete.  Within her spirit was that which engendered, and exacted, love from every life she touched.  Few, however, had found what Willis had.

P.S.  Since I was unable to find a photo of Rowena online, I chose an old picture of a woman very special to me…may I introduce you to Barbara Jane Over-McIntyre, my mom.

Don’t Judge a Man by His Coveralls

Bluebell, my dad’s book that’s first on my list to get published, is filled with thoughts that make it more than just a story.  And that’s what today’s Graphically Said post is all about.

Willis Jefferson, the man described in the quote above, wasn’t wealthy; at least not in the way people normally define wealth.  But there was a richness about him that few could miss, if they looked closely and were honest with themselves.

Learn More about Willis

  1. Read an excerpt from the book.
  2. Check out a recent post about love.
  3. Discover his similarity to Charlie Bucket, from Charlie and the Chocolate Factory

     

 

BAD, Bad Words

Although it may never have been Graphically Said before today, this excerpt from one of dad’s short stories is pretty much spot on.  Referring to words “that demean or ridicule a person, or group of persons”, dad says, “These mindless racial and ethnic slurs are the only words I consider truly bad.  Aside from the hurt they cause others, they brand the user as a stupid, thoughtless, bigot.

If stupid seems a bit harsh, remember that the root of prejudice is ignorance.  Granted, fear plays a large part in the process, but it is lack of understanding, i.e., ignorance, wherein we become mired.”

His piece continues with these words…

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Facing Difficulties

You may have heard the saying, ‘the straw that broke the camel’s back‘ but what we may not think about is that camels are all different…just like us.  What might be too much for one to bear, another can shoulder with ease.

My dad wrote a short story, titled ‘A Tree for Tomorrow’,  about one of those difficult times in his life, and I’ve identified several quotes worthy of sharing.  Here’s one of them and rest assured, there could be more to follow.

If you’d like to read more about “A Tree for Tomorrow”, check out this post from earlier in 2017.